U n I, a great world together..

U was a he bird n I was a she bird.
U bird was very naughty n freaky... n She bird was so but d only difference they had, I was very soft by heart n sweet too. I n U were the best pair in d whole jungle. U stayed in a far tree n I stayed alone in a tree. I was in luv wid U. U fled away without a single word... One day U came to find I on the same tree he left her away d whole day n knight he waited so long but I din't come back.
I felt she hurt U n U came back to say something.....
No matter the distance was no matter the closesness they had... all were just getting filled in his heart day by day. No message about I so long ...


One day I was alone sitting n chirping on the branch of a big tree, I came n said U are still alone... U said I was not with U n U with I so stayed alone.
I dont leave U , I love U n U love I ... hearing this all the birds around started chirping along with U & I...
Thus U & I make the worlds greatest couple n its said U & I are a great world together......

Ek Bandhan Pyaar ka..aisa bhi...

Raksha Bandhan...

A day made for the sweet, cute and adorable bros n sis... the way they fight, the way they quarrell, the way they compare everything given by parents, the way they share all the feelings, the way they be together apart from the long distance. Everything is just a god created beautiful world....

I still remember the day i was just tied and thrown into the van to go for studies.. but i knew why i was there.. only becuz of my sweet bro Babloo..since he was of 3 months i was with him till he was 4 years...

I still remember when Biki was born i dint know tht i have been blessed with my own brother...crap what was that own n others no way.. Babloo is my bro.. But then when i first time saw him.. i felt oh yes i have 2 brothers now... like Jagannath and Balabhadra...n i was the subhadra...I always assumed so... Other than that i always counted Chinu, chiku n Fiku as my own bros like i had 5 pandavas...

On going.. i had tied rakhi to many sweet n cute bros: Lipu, Happy, Gupti, Bapi,Pappu, Lalji, Babi, Aroop, Manjunath..

Having so many brothers is really to be a lucky sis...

Just 2 days ago i was sitting infront of my best bro Shri Ganesh..n crying that this will be a year first time i wont tie rakhi to anyone...

Suddenly Sonia called me up n said Mayank(Sonia's hubby, whom i just met twice but became very dear) was asking whether u will cum to tie rakhi...I was so happy i can't express...

I fought for the moment n it was worth to get such a loving brother, Mayank... he took me n Sonia on a drive in his new car...i was like thanking Shri Ganesh to hear my words so soon...n bless with a bro like Mayank.. The moment filled drops in my eyes when i departed their place n said bye to them n came back to my office desk..I have no words to say thanks to bhai ganesh...n bhai Mayank...

The moment i reached my desk i felt n realised how much it pains having no one to whom a girl can tie a rakhi n be called as a sis.. n remembered that how sad mom would be today, who has lost her bro...I called her up n found her feeling low ...but the whole family was gathered n njoying the moment there..together..I could not stop my drops flowing again...from the deep core of my heart missing my family a lot...

WHY I HAVE BEEN BLESSED IN A WAY N CURSED IN THE OTHER... but m lucky to be blessed with so nice brothers ...

Thanks everyone...

Love is a long wait......

Love is a moment 2 gather all d pain of my beloved n turn them into Smile.....

If U love some one becauseU think that he or she is really gorgeous...

Then it's not love..It's - INFACTUATION. . .
If you love some one becauseYou think that you shouldn't leave him/her becauseOthers think that you shouldn't ...

Then it's not love..It's - COMPROMISE. . .
If you love some one becauseYou think that you cannot live with out his/her touch ....

Then it's not love ..It's - LUST. . .
If you love some one becauseYou have been kissed by him/her ...

Then it's not love..It's - INFERIORITY COMPLEX. . .
If you love some one becauseYou cannot leave him/her thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..

Then it's not love ..It's - CHARITY. . .
If you love some one becauseYou share every thing with him/her ...

Then it's not love..It's - FRIENDSHIP. . .

But if you feel the pain of the other personMore than him/her even when he is stable and you cry for him ..

That's – LOVE

A New Class.. "Meri Pehchaan"

"Women Literacy"

Till date AID-Prayas, worked upon several fields of a society like teaching kids making the kids aware of their personal health and personal development of the kids, health campaigns, cleanliness campaign, family planning sessions and many more initiatives. Though we have come through a long tough wayand seen drastic changes, yet few things are still pulling the legs of our achievement. A kid's first school is its home. Hence when we are trying to educate the kids, but at a point of time their parents do not understand the importance and values. There arises questions like:
What n how can be that done?
How to motivate those parents?
When we go for family planning sessions we find women in the community dont have a self confident and knowledge on any social awareness, so how to make the aware?
Few teenage girls cannot go to school because of social boundaries, few women can't go any where outside to learn the letters of literacy atleast.
For all such ?? Qs a ray of hope became the term"Adult Literacy" and the first step to for this is the "Women Literacy".

WHy with Women only.. because a strong intiative force was ther from the women from the community that "Yes we want to learn too".
Day1:The class started with a registration of around girls and women with a strength of 18.Day1 was quite funfilled with the Shy and smile filled Introduction of each lady. A register was prepared to get their name enrolled with their age. Laughy laughy environment was there. Kids went their home and pulled their mother and sisters sitting home too. Aslo discussed on the name to be given for this batch. A lady said "Meri Pehchaan". NOt bad!!!
Day2: Attendance was 99%, great to see this. Started with the profiling of the new batch. Profiling here meant their husband/father's name and their area of interest and hobbies. Then the first lesson of Women literacy, their Signature was taught. Within 1 hr all was set all had learnt sign.
Day3: Hindi "Swar" letters were started and was a good start with 8 letters complete learning in an hour.
Really the inital start up is good and more can be done.
Class Timings: 4:00 pm to 5:00 pm every Sunday

Venue: Kamra No:1, NayaBans
Any Ideas/inputs to enhance this session is highly appreciated.Volunteership for this session is also invited.

Prays Balsabha---Kal se Aaj tak

A day was there when we discussed about an event called Balsabha. It was asked that who wants to take this initiative. I raised my hand to take this responsibilty. It was decided to organise this event on first Sunday of every month which will be a meeting with all the kids at a time and volunteers too. It was started with a small event inside the new class room by me and Raj accompanied by Darshan, Charu, Selva, Anand, Sugandha and many more. Kids gave their wonderful performance. It was a day when we prepared kids to give performance. And Now it was our 5th Balsabha, when I saw they just needed a bit of my help to fine tune. Though there is always a scope of improvement and learning, but remarkable difference is also seen. Trying to bring infront those kids who do not participate in anything. Thanks a lot to everyone for being a part of BalSabha. A great event and great Ideas. Due to Birthday celebration of Akanksha and belated birthday of Raj, though we could not setup the surprise event for volunteers, but yes we will be doing next time definitely. More volunteers and their precious suggestions are duely appreciated for the next turn

Prayas k Kuch pal...

Prayas mein kayi aise pal jude hain jinko byakt karna shaayad namumkin hai. Mera pehla Activity class, 15th Aug ka celebration, Eid ka tyohaar, Diwali ke diye bachhon ki Balsabha..... Aise akyi aur pal hain jinse meri muskaan judi hui hai. Ek ek bachhe ki pyari hasi unki pari baatein, unki ladhai, unke jhagde, unki nadaaniyaan , unke achievements, unke parents ke chere pe humare liye wo viswaas ...aise kayi cheesein hain jo mujhe har pal unse aur jod deti hai...

Prayas mein pehla din..21 Mar 09

I always had a dream and aiming towards teaching helpless kids in our community. I had always dreamt of opening a "Phulwari" and teach such kids. After joining CSC I had tried many a times to join Binergy group but could not. Many a times I discussed with my cab mates too. Once Raj said that even he works for such a group. I said I am interested to join. but he never said anything. One day when I forced to say something about his NGO group he said you have to pay money n time n seriousness to participate. I agreed yet he din't say anything to join. One day I was upset for some reason, suddenly he said "Kal Prayas chalna hai?". I was like shocked and happy and excited to see a new day in my life. On the next day I was eager to visit.
I went to Prayas with Raj. The world of kids made me just feel great. Their lovely and affectionate welcome with a smile just made me decide on the spot, that yes their could be nothing better start than this as an inspiration for "Phulwari" than this. I was happy like never before.
Since that day I have found myself a part of Prayas family. Its great to be with the kids. I take classes and play n have fun with my lovely kids.